Is Collaborative Law the Best Choice for Your Divorce?

Is Collaborative Law the Best Choice for Your Divorce?There are many different ways to file for divorce.  From fighting over every candlestick and minute of parenting time to agreeing to all the terms and conditions without a contested legal battle, couples actively choose how much time and effort they want to put into their divorce.  Often times, couples approach their divorces with different sets of expectations, which is why it may become a source of hostility and contention. If couples are generally of the same mindset and want to resolve their divorce without protracted litigation, a collaborative law divorce is always a great option. read more

Ex-Spouse Filing For Bankruptcy? How This Affects Child Support

child custodyIt’s an unfortunate truth that often times ‘money problems’ are cited as the leading cause or contributing factor to divorce. Considering this, it’s not unusual for a post-divorce bankruptcy (or two) to play a part of the life after divorce.

In dealing with bankruptcy concerns, child support becomes a critical factor for Florida law cases. If you find yourself facing this situation with your ex-spouse, you need to be informed about how bankruptcy affects child support payments.

Often, one party files for bankruptcy under the impression that any and all financial obligation to the other party will be dischargeable in the bankruptcy. However, this is simply not the case with domestic support obligation(s). In response to the economic downturn and housing market decline, a bankruptcy law went into effect in 2005, titled ‘The Bankruptcy Abuse Prevention and Consumer Protection Act’ (BAPCPA ). This altered the relationship of debtors and creditors, and even altered the relationships between creditors. This new law changed many things in the bankruptcy code including how a “domestic support obligation” will be treated. read more

Tips for Working Through Time Sharing and Child Visitation Challenges

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Time-sharing and post-divorce family living isn’t as easy as it looks on paper. Once you and your ex-spouse complete the process of divorce and separate households, you may see and welcome this as a ‘fresh start’. However your children may experience a longer post-divorce  adjustment period and they may continue to feel a roller coaster of emotions as a result of  the change.

When this happens, even the most amicable of co-parenting arrangements can prove stressful.

Many, if not most, children have a difficult time comprehending and adapting to new life circumstances. Different living arrangements and unknown things, places and people can be unsettling to a child. There may be a new step-parent or partner in one (or both) households, the change in neighborhood and daily routine can lead a child to withdraw, throw tantrums, cry and act out in anger without cause. In essence, kids frequently respond to post-divorce change with feelings rather than reason. read more

5 Tips for Co-Parenting During Summer Break and Vacations

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It’s that time of year again!  Summer time offers children a special time to look forward to fun, outdoor activities and freedom from school duties. While all that typically comes with summer break for kids, for post-divorce parents, it can be a challenging time.

What is typical in many co-parenting arrangements, children are with one parent or the other for longer periods of time over the summer than during the school year.

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In summer time, regular schedules and habits change. It’s this change up in routine and scheduled parent time that can produces anxiety for children and concern for parents. read more

Limiting Child Visitation Rights aka Timesharing Rights

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As a divorced parent, you may find co-parenting and visitation rights to be one of the hardest challenges you will face post-divorce.

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In the best of cases, an agreement on a cohesive parenting plan allows both parents to work together to raise children in a healthy and loving manner.  Unfortunately, not every scenario works out so easily, and the child’s welfare is the Family Law Court’s primary concern with all custody and visitation matters.

Parents and relatives may be denied visitation rights for the following reasons: read more

Having Trouble Collecting Child Support From Your Ex-Spouse?

Having Trouble Collecting Child Support from Your Ex-Spouse

A key understanding in all divorce cases that involve children is both parents have an ongoing obligation to support their children.

Having Trouble Collecting Child Support from Your Ex-Spouse

Divorce or separation does not negate or minimize the level of obligation to support and properly care for the children.

The court’s primary goal is to establish post-divorce custody orders that are in the best interest of the child. In most cases, one parent receives custody of the child the majority of the time, as opposed to equal time.

To help that parent, the court orders the other parent to pay child support. The amount is usually based on the income of both parents and is made in light of what will be in the best interest of the children. Child Support  guidelines created by state law help arrive at the amount the other parent must pay. But what do you do if the other parent fails to pay you the required amount? read more

Disconnecting From Your Spouse Online

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Shared digital/online accounts is another tech-related area that may present concerns over privacy and trust during a divorce.

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The number of shared accounts, from family cell phone plans to streaming movie and entertainment accounts have skyrocketed in the past decade. At some point during a divorce proceeding, either you or your ex-spouse may insist on separating cell phone plans and such, but your accounts are still under contract for a period of time.

Mobile Phone/Tablet/Wireless Accounts

Many online accounts will be easier to separate, but some may require a complete disconnection of services. Take mobile phone/wireless plans for instance. These plans and contracts can be difficult to separate, since most plans are under contract for two years and you face penalty fees if you break the contract early.  Additionally with a shared mobile phone plan, it’s easy to access the shared account  minutes, text, data streaming and picture messaging – meaning each partner can monitor the other persons’ mobile activities. You have two options here: read more

Risks of Using Social Media During Divorce

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 Are you considering or going through a divorce at this time? If so, you should be aware of the risks of using social media during divorce.

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Here’s some helpful information about using social media sites, like Facebook, if you’re in or will be involved in a court case for divorce, custody, co-parenting and assets.

First, you should know that social media means a wide variety of things—Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, MySpace, Pinterest, personal blogs and other online sites. With so many social sites, this post will use Facebook as the primary example, but the information applies to anything posted online via a social sites. read more

Taxes and Divorce

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Taxes and divorce might have been the last thing you were thinking about at the time.

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But if you’re now separated or newly divorced, it could be worth your while to get some good financial advice before the April 15th tax deadline.

Here are important tax tips for those who are divorced, or are divorcing:

What Is My Filing Status: Divorced or Married?

By law your filing status is determined as of the last day of the calendar year. You are considered unmarried for the whole year if, on the last day of the tax year, you are unmarried or legally separated from your spouse as determined by a divorce or separate maintenance decree. read more

Ground Rules for Living Together While Separating or Divorcing

Ground Rules for Living Together While Separating or DivorcingObtaining separate residences during a divorce is not always an option.  Sometimes, a married couple needs to wait until the house sells or experience other financial challenges.  Hopefully, the terms of the divorce are amicable enough to last another few months under the same roof.  If you are considering living with your soon-to-be ex-spouse during a divorce, then hopefully, this list will help you.  We’ve included a few ground rules for living together while separating or divorcing for the potentially uncomfortable situation. read more